CAUGHT IN DEADLIGHTS
Life sometimes takes an unforseen turn off of “Good Road” leaving us stranded at an unwanted dark place of pain. We call many of these frightening or painful life experiences: “trauma”. We weren’t there before, but here we are now. “And where exactly is it that I am?”, we may ask ourselves. “I never been here. I never had any intentions of coming anywhere near this God forsaken place. I want to up and leave right now!”
Many of us have gone through some hard time(s) that feel like we were drugged, kidnapped, shoved in the back of an unmarked van and transported to a strange place where we just have been shocked back to consciouness by a bucket of freezing cold water being splashed on our face. While we are pumped with the surge of a million different varying degrees of emotions, we also feel numb. Almost anesthecized, like a deer caught in headlights but worse. This feels like we’re the living dead inside, frozen in time; caught in the brightness of oncoming deadlights.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Trauma affects us all in many differnet ways. For many, it is as if we are deer caught in headlights. We become paralyzed and frozen in place as of we were playing “red light-green-light-123”. We’re at a stand still unable to move or escape even though we feel danger is coming straight towards us. It’s like a really bad nighmare in which some horrific monster is chasing us and though we open our mouths to scream for “help”, nothing comes out. We desperately try to run but we have lost all control of our body to fear’s cold cruel hold. We’re stuck. Unable to budge. We’re super-glued to the floor and coweing at the mercy of terror.
The past and its experiences has a way of scarring us. Indeed it engraves its mark. It paralyzes and leaves us stuck where we stand as if we were wearing concrete shoes. We become immobolized similar to chained captives, tied-up gagged hostages, or prisoners of war surrounded by barbed wire, war dogs, and armed soldiers. Resistance like the Star Trek Borg’s would say, is futile. But we do not have to remain incarcerated inmates of our past no matter what may have happened to us. Why? Well because it is literally a lie to believe we are relegated to live in and relive the traumas of our past! We are never whatever happened to us, but whoever God has created us to be. Wrong turns, potholes, accidents, carwrecks, flat tires, or detouts may be part of the journey; but they do not determine our final destination. That’s our decision to make by partnering, agreeing, and alligning ourselves with God’s purpose for our life.
LIVE FOR TODAY NOT FROM YESTERDAY
We no longer have to give the past a place in, any more power, rule, or control over our lives. Really, it’s time we put our foot down and shout at the top of our lungs, “Enough is enough!” We can choose to leave and abandon the past in the past where it belongs, and live the new abundant life in Christ seperated and apart from the old traumas and experiences of the past. The new life does not have to be tainted, contaminated, or infected by what occurred yesterday. The “Good News” does not include yestrday’s bad news, it overrides, deletes, and replaces it with a new script. When we surrender our lives to Christ (and that includes our past), there’s a unique transformation and new birth that takes place: “The old passess away and all things are made brand spamking new!” Our life becomes a clean slate. No God doesn’t recycle, he creates a new “you” and “I” from scratch. God doesn’t go diving into the junk yard for spare discarded parts. No part of the old life is used in the “new creation”, “new creature” process. Because of Christ, we are created (not recreated) new!
Therefore, in light of this Truth, we should all raise our heads high, straighten our backs, square our shoulders, and stick out our chest as we echo the words of the Apostle Paul: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” How did Paul deal with the traumas of old? Let’s find out: “I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” And finally, let’s end with God’s perspective regarding how we should deal and reconcile with the trauma, pains, sufferings, and all of the past now covered and forgiven by the blood of Christ: “Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth…” In the words of DC Talk, “God is doing a new thing”! So choose to live in the present and not in the past. Live for today not from yesterday.
- 2 Corinthians 5:17
- Philippoans 3:13-14
- Isaiah 43:18-19